What Would you Do? Down Syndrome Grocery Clerk Scenario

by PkWynn on May 21, 2010

A hard-working supermarket clerk is bagging groceries at the end of the express checkout lane. He’s doing a good job, but an impatient customer checks her watch and starts to criticize.
“What Would You Do?” gets reactions to verbal abuse of clerk with special needs.

“Hurry up,” the customer harps. “I don’t have all day.”

Rude customers are nothing new, especially in a grocery store located on a busy street in New York. What makes this scenario so objectionable is that the person bagging groceries has Down syndrome, and the customer starts to use indefensible language.

“Can you not understand me?” she yells, “You’re absolutely retarded!”

Would you stand up and say something if you witnessed this cruelty?

To find out how customers would respond to such a scenario, we set up our “What Would You Do?” hidden cameras in a grocery store in Brooklyn, N.Y. While the scene described may seem extreme, it echoes behavior that happens all too often.

In this very store, a grocery clerk named Elvis — who has an intellectual disability — has been stocking shelves for more than a decade. His boss, Ivan, calls Elvis “the best,” and holds him up as a standard for all other employees. Unfortunately, customers sometimes berate Elvis, using words like “stupid,” “idiot” and — the most hurtful — “retard.”

Madeline Will of the National Down Syndrome Society knows how this word damages people with special needs.

“It makes them feel less valuable, makes them feel less human,” she said. “It’s important to say, again and again, this is wrong, this is not fair, this is not how we treat other people.”

But will customers take a stand when they see a person with special needs being verbally abused?

To find out we hired Josh Eber, an actor who has Down syndrome. Josh has spent his life acting opposite Muppets on “Sesame Street” and A-list actors in Hollywood movies, but for two days he played the part of a grocery clerk facing profound ignorance supplied by other actors, posing as customers in line.

“You’re absolutely retarded, dude! You have to go faster,” our actress yelled as Josh bagged her groceries. Behind her, a woman’s jaw dropped.

This customer, Kathleen, was clearly disturbed, but she stayed quiet until our actress engaged her.

“They shouldn’t hire these people, right?” our actress asked.

“I don’t know,” Kathleen responded sheepishly. “I think they more, like, try to help them out.”

“But it like they’re oblivious to what’s going on in real life,” the actress pressed. “Like, their reactions are slow.”

She was clearly horrified, but Kathleen gave in.

“Right,” she said, “I know what you’re saying.”

Kathleen said later she thought the scene was horrible, but didn’t want to risk a confrontation.

“She can lash out at me in any kind of way,” she said, “and that’s what I’m trying to avoid.”

It’s a common reaction. One woman said she didn’t agree with the actress’ language, but she politely laughed along as the actress made jokes about Josh.

“She was just blowing off steam,” this customer reasoned.

After a number of quiet customers passed through the abusive scene, we wondered: Will anyone fight for Josh?

That’s when Linda Tapia stepped in line.

“Oh no,” our actress said as she put her groceries on the counter. “I didn’t see this was the retarded line.”

“Did you just say that?” Linda asked. “I can’t believe you just said that!”

For a moment, it seemed that Linda was speechless, but then she summoned the words to put our actress in her place.

“If that was my child I’d deck you!” she shouted. “You’re a crime! You’re a crime.”

When the scene was swarmed by “What Would You Do?” cameramen, no one was more proud of Linda than our actor, Josh.

“It’s not right to treat people with Down syndrome like that,” he told us. “No one puts us down. No one.”

But will reactions be different if, instead of an adult, the ignorance comes from a clueless teenager? What if it comes from an intimidating man? And what will happen when the customer witnessing the abuse has a person with Down syndrome in his family?

From ABC News.

  • http://minyards7.blogspot.com Alicia

    Oh my gosh, makes me want to cry!!! People can be so cruel! Shame on them!

  • Paul

    At my store we have an employee named Brian that has worked for the company for 21 years now and he has a disability, but he has been the Customer Service Associate of the month 3 times since I have been there and is one of the best workers I have ever met. He used to bag groceries and worked in customer service for a few years until he started losing his vision. Now he cleans everyday for half of his shift and demos the other half. This is by far the cleanest store I have worked at and the customers love him. We also do charity things around the holidays and this last year he has gotten over $1000 in donations from customers just for being who he is and having fun with what he does. Thanks Brian!

  • http://thetreeswillclap.com Erika

    Oh my goodness. I don’t care WHO’s in line in front of me–if somebody said something like that, I’d really like to believe I’d let them have it. That is sooo wrong.

  • Jade

    This brought tears to my eyes. My uncle had cerebral palsy and died due to a seizure. The word “retard” is worse than the f word in my house. It’s sickening how cruel people can be to people who are developmentally disabled. More people need to speak up when they see this kind of thing happen.

  • http://mindofmine.co.uk Ian Brooks

    That was amazing.

    I know for a fact that I would have reacted in the exact same way as Linda.

  • Esther

    It is so sad how ignorant and cruel people can be. We all need to stand up for each other and give support as needed.

    I work with a dear friend who has asperger’s syndrome. And he is always hard working and looking out for his friends. I support you Peter! =)

  • http://www.wickedgirlsthinkit.com Wicked Shawn

    Damn Paul, you made me cry.

    Neil works at the one grocery store we have here. He’s been with them for over 18 years now. As he has gotten over his challenges have increased. As he went on a break one day last summer, he went to get in line to pay for a snack and a soda, someone stopped him to chat for a minute. After talking to them, he went and took the rest of his break, then returned to work. Two days later he was fired for theft. He had gotten distracted and not remembered to pay the $2.49 for his soda and snack. Three days later there were over 600 of us in front of the store, signs in hand, showing support for Neil. Reminding the “only store in town” that there are nearby towns that have stores.

    Neil, once again, smiles at each one of us as we enter the local grocery store.

  • http://iamadick.squarespace.com mepsipax

    Believe it or not, I will interfere in a situation like this. Fuck I have before. I have no problem being confrontational. I love to see companies hire special needs worker, and I go out of my way to be nice to them and show my support. I have called people out for just being rude to normal clerks and will not stand for that shit. That shit pisses me off so much. Some of you may think I am talking out of my ass (wouldnt that be a show).

  • http://gotdownsyndrome.blogspot.com Qadoshyah

    I watched this on another blog. I thought it was great! It was interesting to see the reactions of others. I certainly would’ve said something to those individuals.

  • http://raisedqueer.squarespace.com Christine

    That was an excellent episode. I would’ve done the exact same thing, but being not-so ladylike, they would’ve bleeped the shit out of me. I hate assholes.

  • Samantha jane

    So…I normally don’t leave comments because I usually end up leaving something stupid like…”I agree” or “cool”. You know something lame and not worthy of being a comment. Instead I give stars in this case.
    I had to leave a comment this time. Because when I went to give you five stars for this
    touching post and realized that someone had
    rated you less than perfect for this post. Itshouldn’t be about the writing or post, BUT the actual people we are supporting such as, Brian, Josh, Elvis, Peter, and all others! Five stars should be given for those friends!
    Whoever you are that gave less than 5 stars should actually read this post!!

  • http://suzicate.wordpress.com SuziCate

    One of the reasons I love the grocery store that I frequent is that they hire people with disabilities such as Downs Syndrome. My favorite guy has an intellectual disability and he goes out of his way to help everyone. He usually hands me a customer service card after he takes my groceries out and I always fill it out and praise him and send it in to headquarters where they recognize him for his amazing efforts. I can’t believe that people are so rude and actually belittle them in public. That is truly sad. You better believe I’d take up for my guy if I saw someone treating him that way. (I’m sorry I’m calling him my guy, but I’ve had a sudden brain fart and can’t recall his name though I know it as well as my own, which I also can’t remember at this exact moment. I know the second I close this post, I’ll remember it!)

  • Jamie

    I work in a grocery store as a checker and I cant stand people that treat our employees like shit. Who are they to come into my place of work and treat me or any of my co-workers like that. get over yourselves and leave our store your not worth the business. Treat me like a human or leave!!
    And we also have a special needs employee who is always helpful and smiling, and I think its just sad to hear how people have treated him sometimes by taking advantage of his handicap. People are despicable sometimes.

  • http://www.facebook.com/deloresr8 Delores Rubino

    I have a 19 yr. old son who experiences Down Syndrome…and I am not a violent person. However, I would definitely lash out at the person who EVER treated my son like that. It is despicable behavior and NOT to be tolerated.

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